public initialsForm(kitchenForm parent)
 {
     InitializeComponent();
     this.parent = parent;
 }
 public AddCabinetForm(kitchenForm parentForm, string rating) //parentForm is the form that "birthed" the addCabinetForm, specifically it is the kitchenForm
 {
     InitializeComponent();
     this.parentForm = parentForm;
     kitchenRating   = rating;
 }