protected void Page_Load(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
        {
            if (_family == null)
            {
                FamilyMember you    = null;
                FamilyMember spouse = null;

                if (CurrentPerson != null)
                {
                    _family = CurrentPerson.Family();

                    you = _family.FamilyMembers.FindByGuid(CurrentPerson.PersonGUID);

                    spouse = _family.Spouse(CurrentPerson);
                }
                else
                {
                    _family = new Family();

                    you            = new FamilyMember();
                    you.PersonGUID = Guid.NewGuid();
                    you.FamilyRole = new Lookup(SystemLookup.FamilyRole_Adult);
                    you.Gender     = Arena.Enums.Gender.Unknown;
                    _family.FamilyMembers.Add(you);
                }

                // Save Spouse
                if (spouse == null)
                {
                    spouse            = new FamilyMember();
                    spouse.PersonGUID = Guid.NewGuid();
                    spouse.FamilyRole = new Lookup(SystemLookup.FamilyRole_Adult);
                    if (CurrentPerson != null && CurrentPerson.Gender == Arena.Enums.Gender.Male)
                    {
                        you.Gender = Arena.Enums.Gender.Female;
                    }
                    else if (CurrentPerson != null && CurrentPerson.Gender == Arena.Enums.Gender.Female)
                    {
                        you.Gender = Arena.Enums.Gender.Male;
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        you.Gender = Arena.Enums.Gender.Unknown;
                    }
                    _family.FamilyMembers.Add(spouse);
                }

                // Save Guids
                hfYouGuid.Value    = you.PersonGUID.ToString();
                hfSpouseGuid.Value = spouse.PersonGUID.ToString();
            }

            if (Page.IsPostBack)
            {
                UpdateChanges();
            }
            else
            {
                ShowYou();
            }
        }