/// <summary>
        /// This writes a message to the output stream
        /// </summary>
        /// <param name="physical">The phsyical connection to write to.</param>
        /// <param name="message">The message to be written.</param>
        internal ValueTask <WriteResult> WriteMessageTakingWriteLockAsync(PhysicalConnection physical, Message message)
        {
            Trace("Writing: " + message);
            message.SetEnqueued(physical); // this also records the read/write stats at this point

            bool releaseLock = false;

            MutexSlim.LockToken token = default;
            try
            {
                // try to acquire it synchronously
                // note: timeout is specified in mutex-constructor
                var pending = _singleWriterMutex.TryWaitAsync(options: MutexSlim.WaitOptions.DisableAsyncContext);
                if (!pending.IsCompletedSuccessfully)
                {
                    return(WriteMessageTakingDelayedWriteLockAsync(pending, physical, message));
                }

                releaseLock = true;
                token       = pending.GetResult(); // we can't use "using" for this, because we might not want to kill it yet
                if (!token.Success)                // (in particular, me might hand the lifetime to CompleteWriteAndReleaseLockAsync)
                {
                    message.Cancel();
                    Multiplexer?.OnMessageFaulted(message, null);
                    this.CompleteSyncOrAsync(message);
                    return(new ValueTask <WriteResult>(WriteResult.TimeoutBeforeWrite));
                }

                var result = WriteMessageInsideLock(physical, message);

                if (result == WriteResult.Success)
                {
                    var flush = physical.FlushAsync(false);
                    if (!flush.IsCompletedSuccessfully)
                    {
                        releaseLock = false; // so we don't release prematurely
                        return(CompleteWriteAndReleaseLockAsync(token, flush, message));
                    }

                    result = flush.Result; // we know it was completed, this is fine
                }

                UnmarkActiveMessage(message);
                physical.SetIdle();

                return(new ValueTask <WriteResult>(result));
            }
            catch (Exception ex) { return(new ValueTask <WriteResult>(HandleWriteException(message, ex))); }
            finally
            {
                if (releaseLock)
                {
                    token.Dispose();
                }
            }
        }
        private async ValueTask <WriteResult> CompleteWriteAndReleaseLockAsync(MutexSlim.LockToken lockToken, ValueTask <WriteResult> flush, Message message)
        {
            using (lockToken)
            {
                try
                {
                    var result = await flush.ForAwait();

                    UnmarkActiveMessage(message);
                    physical.SetIdle();
                    return(result);
                }
                catch (Exception ex) { return(HandleWriteException(message, ex)); }
            }
        }