private void listBox1_DoubleClick(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            if (listBox1.SelectedItem != null)
            {
                ShowReaminder s = new ShowReaminder(this, ths, "update");
                addcontroltopanel(s);
                //MessageBox.Show(rem_name);
                //conn = new OracleConnection(ordb);
                //conn.Open();

                //OracleCommand cmd = new OracleCommand();
                //cmd.Connection = conn;
                //cmd.CommandText = "select rem_name , text , rem_data from reminder where rem_name = :rem_name";
                //cmd.CommandType = CommandType.Text;

                //OracleParameter p_rem_name = new OracleParameter();
                //p_rem_name.OracleDbType = OracleDbType.Varchar2;
                //p_rem_name.Value = rem_name.ToString();
                //cmd.Parameters.Add(p_rem_name);
                //OracleDataReader dr = cmd.ExecuteReader();

                // dr.Read();

                //    MessageBox.Show(dr[0].ToString());
                //    MessageBox.Show(dr[1].ToString());
                //    MessageBox.Show(dr[2].ToString());


                //dr.Close();
            }
            else
            {
                MessageBox.Show("No Selected Reminder to Show", "Error", MessageBoxButtons.OK, MessageBoxIcon.Warning);
            }
        }
        private void pictureBox3_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            ShowReaminder s = new ShowReaminder(this, ths, "insert");

            addcontroltopanel(s);
        }