/// <summary>
        /// “发起群聊”:发起群聊
        /// </summary>
        /// <param name="sender"></param>
        /// <param name="e"></param>
        private void multichatButton_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            tagMultichat = 1;
            string[]     group;
            int          group_num = 0;
            DialogResult r         = MessageBox.Show("将所选中好友全部加入群聊,开始群聊?", "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.OKCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);

            if (r == DialogResult.OK)
            {
                int n = this.friendsList.Controls.Count;
                for (int i = 0; i < n; i++)
                {
                    if (this.friendsList.Controls[i].BackColor == Color.LightBlue)
                    {
                        group_num++;
                    }
                }
                group = new string[group_num];
                int j = 0;
                for (int i = 0; i < n; i++)
                {
                    if (this.friendsList.Controls[i].BackColor == Color.LightBlue)
                    {
                        Friend temp = (Friend)this.friendsList.Controls[i];
                        group[j] = temp.friendListName.Text;
                        j++;
                    }
                }

                MultiChat form3 = new MultiChat(myName, myIp, myPortrait, group, "", "", "", "server");
                form3.Focus();
                form3.Owner = this;
                form3.Show();
            }
        }
        private void listening()
        {
            while (true)
            {
                Socket receive  = ordinListener.AcceptSocket();
                byte[] bytes    = new byte[2048];
                string recvInfo = "";
                int    num      = receive.Receive(bytes);
                recvInfo = Encoding.Unicode.GetString(bytes, 0, num);

                ///监听是否有对话请求
                if (recvInfo.StartsWith("START_CHAT"))
                {
                    string mesFrom = recvInfo.Substring(10, 10);
                    int    tag     = 0; //标记会话是否已经存在
                    for (int i = 0; i < chatMaxNum; i++)
                    {
                        if (chattList[i] != null && "chat_with" + mesFrom == chattList[i])
                        {
                            tag = 1;                            //表示会话已经存在
                            break;
                        }
                        else
                        {
                            tag = 0;                          //如果会话不存在
                        }
                    }
                    if (tag == 0)
                    {
                        DialogResult r = MessageBox.Show("您的好友" + mesFrom + "发起会话,开始对话?", "开始会话", MessageBoxButtons.OKCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                        if (r == DialogResult.OK)
                        {
                            for (int i = 0; i < chatMaxNum; i++)
                            {
                                if (chattList[i] == "0")
                                {
                                    chatListLoc = i;
                                    break;
                                }
                            }
                            chattList[chatListLoc] = "chat_with" + mesFrom;

                            this.Invoke(new Action(() =>
                            {
                                Chat chatForm = new Chat(mesFrom, myName, myIp, myPortrait, recvInfo);     //新建会话框
                                chatForm.Show();
                                chatForm.Focus();
                                chatForm.Owner = this;
                            }));
                        }
                        else
                        {
                            string[] temp2     = recvInfo.Split('$');
                            string   mesFromIp = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);
                            //拒绝对话请求
                            string     userSend      = "FALSE_CHAT" + myName;              //关闭聊天
                            IPAddress  serverIp      = IPAddress.Parse(mesFromIp);         //对方ip
                            IPEndPoint hostEP        = new IPEndPoint(serverIp, sendPort); //对方端口地址
                            Socket     client_socket = new Socket(AddressFamily.InterNetwork, SocketType.Stream, ProtocolType.Tcp);
                            try
                            {
                                //尝试连接
                                client_socket.Connect(hostEP);
                            }
                            catch (Exception se)
                            {
                                MessageBox.Show("连接错误" + se.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                                return;
                            }
                            byte[] bytesSendInfo = new byte[1024];
                            bytesSendInfo = Encoding.Unicode.GetBytes(userSend);
                            try
                            {
                                client_socket.Send(bytesSendInfo, bytesSendInfo.Length, 0);    //发送消息
                            }
                            catch (Exception ce)
                            {
                                MessageBox.Show("发送错误:" + ce.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                                return;
                            }
                        }
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        this.Invoke(new Action(() =>
                        {
                            for (int i = 0; i <= chatMaxNum; i++)
                            {
                                if (this.OwnedForms[i].Name == "Chat")
                                {
                                    Chat chatTemp = (Chat)this.OwnedForms[i];
                                    if (chatTemp.friendNameLabel.Text == mesFrom)
                                    {
                                        chatTemp.ShowMessage(recvInfo);
                                        break;
                                    }
                                }
                            }
                        }));
                    }
                }

                ///监听是否有拒绝请求
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("FALSE_CHAT"))
                {
                    string[] temp2     = recvInfo.Split('$');
                    string   mesFromIp = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);
                    for (int i = 0; i < chattList.Length; i++)
                    {
                        if (chattList[i] == mesFromIp)
                        {
                            chattList[i] = "0";
                            break;
                        }
                    }
                    MessageBox.Show("会话被拒绝");
                }

                ///监听是否有文件发送请求
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("SEND_FILES"))
                {
                    string   mesFrom = recvInfo.Substring(10, 10);
                    string[] temp2   = recvInfo.Split('$');
                    fileName = temp2[1];
                    string       mes_from_ip = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);
                    DialogResult r           = MessageBox.Show("您的好友" + mesFrom + "向您发出了文件传输请求,请问是否接收?", "文件传输请求", MessageBoxButtons.OKCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                    if (r == DialogResult.OK)
                    {
                        //同意文件发送请求
                        t2 = new Thread(listening_file);
                        t2.SetApartmentState(ApartmentState.STA);
                        t2.IsBackground = true;
                        t2.Start();

                        fileFrom = mes_from_ip;

                        string     user_send     = "ACCPT_FILE" + myName + ipLabel.Text; //关闭聊天
                        IPAddress  server_ip     = IPAddress.Parse(mes_from_ip);         //对方ip
                        IPEndPoint hostEP        = new IPEndPoint(server_ip, sendPort);  //对方端口地址
                        Socket     client_socket = new Socket(AddressFamily.InterNetwork, SocketType.Stream, ProtocolType.Tcp);
                        try
                        {
                            //尝试连接
                            client_socket.Connect(hostEP);
                        }
                        catch (Exception se)
                        {
                            MessageBox.Show("连接错误" + se.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                            return;
                        }
                        byte[] bytes_send_info = new byte[1024];
                        bytes_send_info = Encoding.Unicode.GetBytes(user_send);
                        try
                        {
                            client_socket.Send(bytes_send_info, bytes_send_info.Length, 0);    //发送消息
                        }
                        catch (Exception ce)
                        {
                            MessageBox.Show("发送错误:" + ce.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                            return;
                        }
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        string     user_send     = "REFUS_FILE" + myName + ipLabel.Text; //关闭聊天
                        IPAddress  server_ip     = IPAddress.Parse(mes_from_ip);         //对方ip
                        IPEndPoint hostEP        = new IPEndPoint(server_ip, sendPort);  //对方端口地址
                        Socket     client_socket = new Socket(AddressFamily.InterNetwork, SocketType.Stream, ProtocolType.Tcp);
                        try
                        {
                            //尝试连接
                            client_socket.Connect(hostEP);
                        }
                        catch (Exception se)
                        {
                            MessageBox.Show("连接错误" + se.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                            return;
                        }
                        byte[] bytes_send_info = new byte[1024];
                        bytes_send_info = Encoding.Unicode.GetBytes(user_send);
                        try
                        {
                            client_socket.Send(bytes_send_info, bytes_send_info.Length, 0);    //发送消息
                        }
                        catch (Exception ce)
                        {
                            MessageBox.Show("发送错误:" + ce.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                            return;
                        }
                    }
                }

                ///监听文件发送过程
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("ACCPT_FILE"))
                {
                    string   mes_from    = recvInfo.Substring(10, 10);
                    string[] temp2       = recvInfo.Split('$');
                    string   mes_from_ip = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);
                    for (int j = 0; j <= chatMaxNum; j++)
                    {
                        if (this.OwnedForms[j].Name == "Chat")              //找到对应的窗口
                        {
                            Chat chatTemp = (Chat)this.OwnedForms[j];
                            if (chatTemp.friendNameLabel.Text == mes_from)
                            {
                                chatTemp.fileSign();
                                break;
                            }
                        }
                    }
                }
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("ACCP2_FILE"))
                {
                    string   mes_from    = recvInfo.Substring(10, 10);
                    string[] temp2       = recvInfo.Split('$');
                    string   mes_from_ip = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);
                    for (int j = 0; j <= chatMaxNum; j++)
                    {
                        if (this.OwnedForms[j].Name == "Chat")              //找到对应的窗口
                        {
                            Chat chatTemp = (Chat)this.OwnedForms[j];
                            if (chatTemp.friendNameLabel.Text == mes_from)
                            {
                                chatTemp.fileSend();
                                break;
                            }
                        }
                    }
                }
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("REFUS_FILE"))
                {
                    MessageBox.Show("文件发送被对方拒绝!");
                }

                ///监听群聊
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("START_MHAT"))
                {
                    string   mes_from    = recvInfo.Substring(10, 10);
                    string[] temp2       = recvInfo.Split('$');
                    string   mes_from_ip = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);
                    int      pos         = temp2[1].IndexOf(" " + myName);
                    if (pos != -1)
                    {
                        temp2[1] = temp2[1].Remove(pos, myName.Length + 1);          //去掉本身,显示群聊对象
                    }
                    temp2[1]  = temp2[1] + " " + mes_from;
                    group_oth = temp2[1].Split(' ');
                    string[] group_oth_real;
                    int      group_len = 0;
                    for (int m = 0; m < group_oth.Length; m++)
                    {
                        if (group_oth[m] != "")
                        {
                            group_len++;
                        }
                    }
                    group_oth_real = new string[group_len];
                    int index = 0;
                    for (int m = 0; m < group_oth.Length; m++)
                    {
                        if (group_oth[m] != "")
                        {
                            group_oth_real[index] = group_oth[m];
                            index++;
                        }
                    }
                    if (tagMultichat == 0)
                    {
                        DialogResult r = MessageBox.Show("您的好友" + mes_from + "向您发起了群聊会话,开始对话?", "接受群聊", MessageBoxButtons.OKCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                        if (r == DialogResult.OK)
                        {
                            this.Invoke(new Action(() =>
                            {
                                MultiChat multiForm = new MultiChat(myName, myIp, myPortrait, group_oth_real, recvInfo, mes_from, mes_from_ip, "client");     //新建会话框
                                multiForm.Show();
                                multiForm.Focus();
                                multiForm.Owner = this;
                            }));
                            tagMultichat = 1;
                        }
                        else
                        {
                            //发送拒绝信息
                            /********************************拒绝对方的群聊请求********************************/
                            string     user_send     = "FALSE_MHAT" + myName;               //关闭聊天
                            IPAddress  server_ip     = IPAddress.Parse(mes_from_ip);        //对方ip
                            IPEndPoint hostEP        = new IPEndPoint(server_ip, sendPort); //对方端口地址
                            Socket     client_socket = new Socket(AddressFamily.InterNetwork, SocketType.Stream, ProtocolType.Tcp);
                            try
                            {
                                //尝试连接
                                client_socket.Connect(hostEP);
                            }
                            catch (Exception se)
                            {
                                MessageBox.Show("连接错误" + se.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                                return;
                            }
                            byte[] bytes_send_info = new byte[1024];
                            bytes_send_info = Encoding.Unicode.GetBytes(user_send);
                            try
                            {
                                client_socket.Send(bytes_send_info, bytes_send_info.Length, 0);    //发送消息
                            }
                            catch (Exception ce)
                            {
                                MessageBox.Show("发送错误:" + ce.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                                return;
                            }

                            tagMultichat = 0;              //表示没有群聊窗口
                        }
                    }
                    else                            //该对话已经存在,直接找到窗口显示
                    {
                        this.Invoke(new Action(() =>
                        {
                            for (int i = 0; i < this.OwnedForms.Count(); i++)
                            {
                                if (this.OwnedForms[i].Name == "multichat")
                                {
                                    MultiChat multiTemp = (MultiChat)this.OwnedForms[i];
                                    {
                                        if (multiTemp.state == "client")             //若是客户机
                                        {
                                            multiTemp.RecvShow(recvInfo, mes_from, group_oth);
                                            break;
                                        }
                                        else if (multiTemp.state == "server")                      //若是服务器
                                        {
                                            multiTemp.RecvShow(recvInfo, mes_from, group_oth);     //在自己的窗口上显示
                                            multiTemp.ownerTrans(recvInfo, mes_from, mes_from_ip); //将收到的消息转发
                                        }
                                    }
                                }
                            }
                        }));
                    }
                }
                ///监听群聊是否被拒绝
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("FALSE_MHAT"))
                {
                    string   mes_from    = recvInfo.Substring(10, 10);
                    string[] temp2       = recvInfo.Split('$');
                    string   mes_from_ip = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);

                    MessageBox.Show("朋友" + mes_from + "退出群聊!");
                    this.Invoke(new Action(() =>                                        //关闭对话
                    {
                        for (int j = 0; j < this.OwnedForms.Count(); j++)
                        {
                            if (this.OwnedForms[j].Name == "MultiChat")
                            {
                                MultiChat multiTemp = (MultiChat)this.OwnedForms[j];
                                {
                                    if (multiTemp.state == "server")                     //接收方必为server
                                    {
                                        int nu = multiTemp.friends_list.Controls.Count;
                                        for (int t = 0; t < nu; t++)
                                        {
                                            Friend tem = (Friend)multiTemp.friends_list.Controls[t];
                                            if (tem.friendListName.Text == mes_from)
                                            {
                                                multiTemp.friends_list.Controls.RemoveAt(t);
                                                break;
                                            }
                                        }
                                    }
                                    break;
                                }
                            }
                        }
                    }));
                }
                ///监听好友添加请求
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("ADD_FRIEND"))
                {
                    string       mesFrom     = recvInfo.Substring(10, 10);
                    string[]     temp2       = recvInfo.Split('$');
                    string       mesFromIp   = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);
                    string       friendReply = "";
                    DialogResult r           = MessageBox.Show("好友:" + mesFrom + "想添加您为好友,请问您接受吗?", "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.OKCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                    if (r == DialogResult.OK)
                    {
                        friendReply = "ACCPT_ADDF" + usernameLabel.Text + ipLabel.Text + "$";
                        NewFriend nfTemp = new NewFriend(myName, myIp);
                        nfTemp.addFriend(mesFrom, mesFromIp);
                    }
                    else
                    {
                        friendReply = "REJEC_ADDF" + usernameLabel.Text + ipLabel.Text + "$";
                    }
                    IPAddress  server_ip     = IPAddress.Parse(mesFromIp);
                    IPEndPoint hostEP        = new IPEndPoint(server_ip, sendPort);
                    Socket     client_socket = new Socket(AddressFamily.InterNetwork, SocketType.Stream, ProtocolType.Tcp);
                    try
                    {
                        client_socket.Connect(hostEP);
                    }
                    catch (Exception se)
                    {
                        MessageBox.Show("连接错误" + se.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                        return;
                    }
                    byte[] bytesSendInfo = new byte[1024];
                    bytesSendInfo = Encoding.Unicode.GetBytes(friendReply);
                    try
                    {
                        client_socket.Send(bytesSendInfo, bytesSendInfo.Length, 0);    //发送消息
                    }
                    catch (Exception ce)
                    {
                        MessageBox.Show("发送错误:" + ce.Message, "提示信息", MessageBoxButtons.RetryCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Information);
                        return;
                    }
                }
                ///监听好友添加请求是否被拒绝
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("REJEC_ADDF"))
                {
                    string   mes_from    = recvInfo.Substring(10, 10);
                    string[] temp2       = recvInfo.Split('$');
                    string   mes_from_ip = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);
                    this.Invoke(new Action(() =>                                        //关闭对话
                    {
                        for (int j = 0; j < this.OwnedForms.Count(); j++)
                        {
                            if (this.OwnedForms[j].Name == "NewFriend")
                            {
                                NewFriend nfTemp = (NewFriend)this.OwnedForms[j];
                                {
                                    nfTemp.friendRespon("REJEC_ADDF", mes_from, mes_from_ip);
                                }
                            }
                        }
                    }));
                }
                ///监听好友添加请求是否被接受
                else if (recvInfo.StartsWith("ACCPT_ADDF"))
                {
                    string   mes_from    = recvInfo.Substring(10, 10);
                    string[] temp2       = recvInfo.Split('$');
                    string   mes_from_ip = temp2[0].Substring(20, temp2[0].Length - 20);
                    this.Invoke(new Action(() =>                                        //关闭对话
                    {
                        for (int j = 0; j < this.OwnedForms.Count(); j++)
                        {
                            if (this.OwnedForms[j].Name == "NewFriend")
                            {
                                NewFriend nfTemp = (NewFriend)this.OwnedForms[j];
                                {
                                    nfTemp.friendRespon("ACCPT_ADDF", mes_from, mes_from_ip);
                                }
                            }
                        }
                    }));
                }
            }
        }