private void DetachSpouse()
{
if (activePerson == husbandId)
{
wifeId = -1;
DBAccessStatic.UpdateFamilyWifeId(familyId, wifeId);
}
else
{
husbandId = -1;
DBAccessStatic.UpdateFamilyHusbandId(familyId, husbandId);
}
LoadFamilyByFamily(familyId);
}