/// <summary>
/// used to retrieve data sent by socketstate
/// </summary>
/// <param name="state"></param>
public static void GetData(SocketState state)
{
state.theSocket.BeginReceive(state.messageBuffer, 0, state.messageBuffer.Length, SocketFlags.None, RecieveCallback, state);
}
/// <summary>
/// gracefully disconnect from a specific socket
/// </summary>
/// <param name="s"></param>
public static void Disconnect(SocketState s)
{
s.theSocket.Disconnect(false);
s.theSocket.Shutdown(SocketShutdown.Both);
s.theSocket.Close();
}