void OnSceneGUI()
    {
        //reference to the class of object used to display gizmo
        VRBasics_Connector connector = (VRBasics_Connector)target;

        //DRAW GIZMO
        connector.DrawGizmo();
    }
    public override void OnInspectorGUI()
    {
        //reference to the class of object
        VRBasics_Connector connector = (VRBasics_Connector)target;

        //always update serialized properties at start of OnInspectorGUI
        serializedObject.Update();

        //start listening for changes in inspector values
        EditorGUI.BeginChangeCheck();

        //display serialized properties in inspector
        EditorGUILayout.PropertyField(typeProp, new GUIContent("Type"));
        EditorGUILayout.PropertyField(coupleIDProp, new GUIContent("Couple ID"));

        //these properties are controlled by a male connector
        if (connector.type == VRBasics_Connector.connectorType.male)
        {
            EditorGUILayout.PropertyField(detachMethodProp, new GUIContent("Detach Method"));

            if (connector.detachMethod == VRBasics_Connector.detachMethods.force)
            {
                EditorGUILayout.PropertyField(breakForceProp, new GUIContent("Break Force"));
            }

            EditorGUILayout.PropertyField(kinematicWhenConnectedProp, new GUIContent("Kinematic When Connected"));

            EditorGUILayout.PropertyField(timeOutSecondsProp, new GUIContent("Time Out Seconds"));
            EditorGUILayout.PropertyField(attachAudioProp, new GUIContent("Attach Audio"));
            EditorGUILayout.PropertyField(detachAudioProp, new GUIContent("Detach Audio"));
        }

        //if there were any changes in inspector values
        if (EditorGUI.EndChangeCheck())
        {
            //apply changes to serialized properties
            serializedObject.ApplyModifiedProperties();

            if (Application.isPlaying)
            {
                connector.DetachFrom();
                connector.SetInTimeOut(false);
                connector.StopCoroutine("ConnectionTimeOut");
            }
        }
    }