private void btnUpdate_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            //update data
            c.contactId = int.Parse(txtCntID.Text);
            c.firstName = txtFirstName.Text;
            c.lastName  = txtLastName.Text;
            c.email     = txtEmail.Text;
            c.contactNo = txtCntNo.Text;
            c.address   = txtAddress.Text;
            c.gender    = comboGender.Text;

            bool isSuccess = c.update(c);

            if (isSuccess == true)
            {
                MessageBox.Show("Contact Successfully Updated ");
                clear();
            }
            else
            {
                MessageBox.Show("Faild to Updated  Contact try again");
            }

            //load data table

            DataTable dt = c.Select();

            dgvContact.DataSource = dt;
        }