private void tryConnect(STCSession session)
        {
            for (int i = 0; i < 5; i++)
            {
                Stopwatch sw = Stopwatch.StartNew();

                addMessage(">>Connecting to " + session.User.Name);
                connected = false;
                Initiator.Start(session);

                while (!connected && sw.ElapsedMilliseconds < 5000)
                {
                    Thread.Sleep(100);
                }

                if (connected)
                {
                    break;
                }

                addMessage(">>Connection to " + session.User.Name + " timed out. Retrying.");
                Initiator.Stop();
            }

            if (!connected)
            {
                addMessage(">>Connection to " + session.User.Name + " failed miserably.");
            }
        }