private void ChatBT_Send_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            string msg = ClintRTB_snd.Text;

            if (msg == "")
            {
                MessageBox.Show("消息不能为空!");
                return;
            }
            ClintRTB_snd.Text = "";
            ClientRTB_msg.AppendText("你 : " + msg + "\r\n");
            sendMessage(msg);
        }
        private void ReadComplete(IAsyncResult ar)
        {
            int bytesRead;

            try
            {
                lock (streamToServer)
                {
                    bytesRead = streamToServer.EndRead(ar);
                }
                if (bytesRead == 0)
                {
                    throw new Exception("读取到0字节");
                }

                string msg = Encoding.Unicode.GetString(buffer, 0, bytesRead);

                if (msg.Substring(0, 3) == "$$$")
                {
                    readLists(msg);
                }
                else
                {
                    ClientRTB_msg.AppendText(msg);
                }

                Array.Clear(buffer, 0, buffer.Length);      // 清空缓存,避免脏读

                lock (streamToServer)
                {
                    AsyncCallback callBack = new AsyncCallback(ReadComplete);
                    streamToServer.BeginRead(buffer, 0, BufferSize, callBack, null);
                }
            }
            catch (Exception ex)
            {
                if (streamToServer != null)
                {
                    streamToServer.Dispose();
                }
                Client.Close();

                Console.WriteLine(ex.Message);
            }
        }