//拒绝添加
        protected void Button9_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            AddFriend mAddFriend = new AddFriend();
            mAddFriend.RefuseAddfriend(Session["UserID"].ToString(), DropDownList1.SelectedValue);
            Page.ClientScript.RegisterStartupScript(Page.GetType(), "Message", "<script Language='javascript'>alert('已拒绝加为好友')</script>");
            DropDownList1.Items.Remove(DropDownList1.Items.FindByValue(DropDownList1.SelectedValue));//按值删除
            if (DropDownList1.Items.Count == 0)
            {
                this.Button7.Visible = false;
                this.DropDownList1.Visible = false;
                this.Button8.Visible = false;
                this.Button9.Visible = false;

            }
        }