private void deleteFriend_Click(object sender, RoutedEventArgs e)
        {
            customMessageBox deleteFriendBox = new customMessageBox("delete friend");

            deleteFriendBox.ShowDialog();
            string friendUsername = deleteFriendBox.typedMessage;

            yesnoMessageBox areyousure = new yesnoMessageBox("are you sure you want to delete this friend?");

            areyousure.ShowDialog();

            if (areyousure.yes == true)
            {
                connection.Open();
                SqlCommand command = new SqlCommand();
                command.Connection  = connection;
                command.CommandText = "usp_getIDbyUsername";
                command.CommandType = CommandType.StoredProcedure;
                command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@username", friendUsername);
                SqlDataAdapter adapter = new SqlDataAdapter(command);
                DataTable      table   = new DataTable();
                adapter.Fill(table);
                connection.Close();

                if (table.Rows.Count > 0)
                {
                    try
                    {
                        connection.Open();
                        SqlCommand command2 = new SqlCommand();
                        command2.Connection  = connection;
                        command2.CommandText = "usp_deleteFriend";
                        command2.CommandType = CommandType.StoredProcedure;
                        command2.Parameters.AddWithValue("@accountID", accountID);
                        command2.Parameters.AddWithValue("@friendID", table.Rows[0]["accountId"]);
                        command2.ExecuteNonQuery();
                        connection.Close();
                    }
                    catch (SqlException ex)
                    {
                        errorMessagesBox error = new errorMessagesBox("there was an error deleting this friend");
                        error.Show();
                    }
                    LoadFriends();
                }
                else
                {
                    errorMessagesBox error = new errorMessagesBox("you are not friends with this user");
                    error.Show();
                }
            }
            else
            {
                areyousure.Close();
            }
        }
        void friendButton_Click(object sender, RoutedEventArgs e)
        {
            yesnoMessageBox messageBox = new yesnoMessageBox("would you like to create a chat with this person?");

            messageBox.ShowDialog();

            if (messageBox.yes == true)
            {
                customMessageBox newform = new customMessageBox("what would you like to name this group?");
                newform.ShowDialog();
                string groupname = newform.typedMessage;

                customMessageBox form = new customMessageBox("what would you like the password to be?");
                form.ShowDialog();
                string password = form.typedMessage;

                //creating chat
                connection.Open();
                SqlCommand command = new SqlCommand();
                command.Connection  = connection;
                command.CommandText = "usp_createChatGroup";
                command.CommandType = CommandType.StoredProcedure;
                command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@name", groupname);
                command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@password", password);
                SqlDataAdapter adapter = new SqlDataAdapter(command);
                DataTable      table   = new DataTable();
                adapter.Fill(table);

                //adding self to chat
                int newGroupID = int.Parse(table.Rows[0]["groupID"].ToString());
                command             = new SqlCommand();
                command.Connection  = connection;
                command.CommandText = "usp_addGroupAccess";
                command.CommandType = CommandType.StoredProcedure;
                command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@accountID", accountID);
                command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@groupID", newGroupID);
                command.ExecuteNonQuery();

                //get id of the other person
                DataTable resultTable = new DataTable();
                string    username    = ((Button)sender).Content.ToString();
                command             = new SqlCommand();
                command.Connection  = connection;
                command.CommandText = "usp_getIDbyUsername";
                command.CommandType = CommandType.StoredProcedure;
                command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@username", username);
                SqlDataAdapter adapter2 = new SqlDataAdapter(command);
                adapter2.Fill(resultTable);
                int otherPersonID = Convert.ToInt32(resultTable.Rows[0]["accountID"]);

                //add other person to chat
                command             = new SqlCommand();
                command.Connection  = connection;
                command.CommandText = "usp_addGroupAccess";
                command.CommandType = CommandType.StoredProcedure;
                command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@accountID", otherPersonID);
                command.Parameters.AddWithValue("@groupID", newGroupID);
                command.ExecuteNonQuery();

                connection.Close();

                LoadChats();
            }
        }