public async Task <JsonResult> AcceptRequest()
        {
            try {
                var rid = Request.Form["RID"];
                //connID
                var cid = Request.Form["CID"];
                //recquestTo UID
                var rtID = Request.Form["RTID"];
                //checks if it is already existing
                var data = ConnectionServices.GetByUIDConnectionID(rtID, cid);
                if (data == null)
                {
                    //create if not existing yet
                    var id = Guid.NewGuid();
                    ConnectionMemberService.InsertMember(id, Guid.Parse(rtID), cid, DateTime.Now, false, false);
                    RequestService.UpdateStatus(true, rid);
                    //signalR notify accepted request is a standalone now if you want to invoke it please  access it via api
                    return(Json(new { success = true }));
                }
                else if (data.isArchived)
                {
                    //if data already exist then unarchive it
                    ConnectionMemberService.UpdateMemberStatus(data.ID.ToString(), false);
                    RequestService.UpdateStatus(true, rid);
                    //signalR notify accepted request is a standalone now if you want to invoke it please  access it via api
                    return(Json(new { success = true }));
                }
                else if (!data.isArchived)
                {
                    RequestService.UpdateStatus(true, rid);
                    return(Json(new { success = false, message = MessageUtility.AlreadyMember() }));
                }

                return(Json(new { success = false, message = MessageUtility.ServerError() }));
            } catch { return(Json(new { success = false, message = MessageUtility.ServerError() })); }
        }